╔════════════════──────── ─────────────────── ───════════════════╗ │ TIPS FROM AN EXPERIENCE. │ ╚════════════════─────────────── ───────────────════════════════╝ (C) Andrey Kryukov (R)IRONMAN DESTROY before reading! STRATEGY AND TACTICS OF SEXUAL Wrestling Introduction This book is an attempt to summarize successes and failures at the fronts struggle with the opposite sex not only by the author, but also by many his dear friends and acquaintances of different sexes. Among the methods and me- There are both verified and unverified methods. Those wishing to test wear them on themselves can use them freely, and about the results may communicate directly to the author. This book is not dogma and is in constant development, addition of successful ones and removal outdated methods and methods. The author does not claim completeness of presentation and irrefutability statements and will gratefully accept comments and additions both in detail and in essence. Note for those especially concerned In this book you will not find anything from the field of physiology sexual life, new poses and so on... This book is for athletes aerobatics (notorious Don Juans)... Dating Of course, acquaintance is the first and most important from the point of view future viewrelationship development step. Impression from the familiar vengeances are divided into two categories - “by clothes” - often erroneous impression of a slightly familiar person. It was the first impression This forces your opponent to decide whether to continue getting acquainted with you or not. Moreover, this does not depend on whether you liked or no, whether you are interested in yourself or not. No matter how externally you attract you were not intimate if at the first communication you seemed inappropriate interesting, the chances for further development of relations are practically no. If you liked you at the first meeting, you will the first time to say goodbye to some uninterestingness in the future. From first impression depends on your chances of continuing the acquaintance and the opportunity to create a second impression. Second: category - the impression is “intelligible” - it develops over quite a period of time for a long time and it is very difficult to influence its creation. If at the first stage a person may not show what he represents out of oneself and play a role that is not inherent to him, then in the future it is not the second impression will inevitably come to light - usually about a person - ke, as he is. Of course, the first stage may take a long time, but We know from experience that it is impossible to play the same role for a long time - Either you take over for yourself, or the role becomes you. Moreover the second is the worst. Now let's talk about the ways and methods of dating. Let's start once - speaking from more complex situations -you and the object are not familiar at all. A typical situation - you liked someone on the street and you want get acquainted. Just come up and start a conversation - most likely nothing will work out. Even if your object does not mind - there are people around who see you approaching get acquainted. Try it- there is another way - come up and ask how to get somewhere (you should know well how to go there). If your subject knows how to go there - ask to see him, if he doesn’t know - tell me how go and offer to accompany you. This way you kill two birds with one stone: first, your target is fooled, not suspecting that they are being tied up with him acquaintance, and secondly, people who saw the beginning of your conversation ra, they went ahead and cannot suspect you of anything wrong - nom. People who follow see that you are talking and they consider you to have known each other for a long time (i.e. they don’t pay attention to you). If you are traveling in public transport, do not try to speak - this is you cause condemnation of others and embarrassment of the object. In this case tea, (if you are not in a hurry of course) go to the stop where your subject exits and when exiting, give her your hand (a calculation is made to the fact that this is not accepted now and you look first of all a real person, and secondly, a gentleman for whom it is naturally. For greater persuasiveness, give your hand to all the ladies, getting off the bus if no one is ahead of you). Somemore successful results are obtained by a more complex method requiring having two people on each side. Example: you and your friend you are traveling in transport and see two girls - objects of acquaintance (possibly strangers to each other). Go to one of them (which whichever one you chose for yourself) and say: “Sorry, my friend wants meet your friend (just that girl), but he is very shy and cannot do it himself. Could you please pre- give it to her..." And you describe your friend from the best side us. As a result, both girls are puzzled - the first one by the fact that you are not you pester her with familiarity, the second - with the originality of the method dating Acquaintance with the first continues on the basis of pimping twa, from the second - out of confusion. Of course, all the methods described above are only suitable for special beat the male. For females, it is recommended to try to ask a man to provide any kind of favor - to hold the bag, change a coin or piece of paper, etc. In general, in case of dating on the street women have a much more difficult time than men and need but be much more careful and spend as much time as possible distracting maneuvers (in our time the most relevant conversation “what, where, how much”) in order to achieve some result. Easier ways to meet people in enclosed spaces - dis- boats, planes, trains, etc. These methods are not complicated anddis- We won't look at them. Certain difficulties arise when two objects are opposed. of the opposite sex know each other, he has a friend, she has - a friend and we need to introduce them. At first glance it's all simple - bring them together and let them sort it out. But it is necessary to provide and another option - they didn’t like each other and you end up in a critical situation. Try your friend (girlfriend) find out the relationship between them and suggest a behavior pattern. Neither in no case should you hint at accompanying you home, buying flowers or any other actions in relation to introducing Xia. All this can lead to crisis situations. We didn’t do it ourselves suspecting you can force a person to do something he doesn’t want to do Whether or not he can’t, he has to, so as not to turn out to be uncultured. If you see that they don't like each other, try as soon as possible, referring to any matters, complete the I speak, otherwise every extra minute only deepens the crisis. For To avoid such situations, in principle, try as hard as possible It’s better to find out about people you’re meeting before they meet and get mutual consent to the risk of dating. You can even tell them a little about each other in the form of “they told me, but I promised not to say anything” rit, so don't let me down." So you significantly reduce the risk of crisis situations. It is also necessary moprovide in advance that in the event of a successful acquaintance, and then "divorce" for any reason, you can lose for yourself anyone who participated in this party. A little about the atmosphere of dating “within a circle of friends.” - Try to start the party not too late. Always necessary leave the opportunity not to spend the night at a party, but to return at a later date mom. Otherwise, in the event of a crisis situation, not all where further time together is possible. - Among those present there should not be many strangers between ourselves of people. In this case, there will be less shyness and inconvenience. If there are several unfamiliar couples to meet - try, as the owner, to distribute them among couples (for example, seated at the table) in accordance with their wishes doe. - Still, the best number of people present is four. B in this case, those present are busy creating only one pair and attention is not scattered. - If the party is intended for acquaintance, it is imperative to The key to success is an equal number of both men and women. - You can’t leave a couple you’ve met for an extended period of time. me, just like you can’t push them to do anything. If they are about agreed on something - they themselves will find a way to inform you about this. - It is necessary to take time out several times during the party for negotiations withyour representative in the dating couple to take into account mutual wishes that cannot be expressed them to each other. - Quiet, unobtrusive music should be played. Objects for acquaintance All objects for female dating can be divided into several categories (in case you are not pursuing serious intentions at least at this time): The first and most common one is that anyone needs to get married at a price. You can maintain a relationship with such people for some time. But over time, relationships with them become more complicated; they require any promises or actions indicating seriousness intentions. It’s good with them only at first, they are ready for you everything, although this readiness may somewhat complicate your and her life. The easiest way to fight women of this category is half-heartedly. hints that an offer is about to arrive. With them it is also possible It’s quite easy to part ways - it’s enough to explain that, for example, getting married now is a crime against our unsettled society, to prove with examples the injustice of the proverb “With dear and in the hut there is paradise." The woman usually leaves after such an explanation. She tries to return after a while, hoping for change - understanding your life position. Women in this category usually have little they are picky about making acquaintances, they easily change us men if will anyone promise anything moresuitable. The second category is women who do not want anything serious at a given moment in time. Getting to know them often involves significant difficulties. The initial stages are very difficult from the point of view view of relationships among themselves. They usually don't share "With darling and It's heaven in the hut." They first want to have a basis for living together. Getting to know them usually lasts a long time, but without excessive sensitivity. ity on their part and concessions to each other. The third category is girls over 20 years old. The hardest ride goria for communication. They suffer from a large number of complexes. Know- Communion without serious intentions is not recommended, and often It's simply dangerous to your health. Usually they are like the first category trying to get married. They have all the disadvantages of the first categories are much more aggravated. The fourth category is women dating for sport. interest, the easiest category to communicate. It’s easy to know them clump and disperse easily. You can't expect anything from them serious. And the fifth category - women who are angry at everyone and get acquainted with the purpose of causing the greatest harm to the opposite sex. Familiar work with this category is possible, but you need to know exactly when It's time to reel in the fishing rods. It is advisable to do this before they will do it. Getting to know them usually pursues the same goals - revenge. After describing all the categories youneed to decide which of the categories include your future friend and is it even worth get to know her. Although this division into categories is given but for unmarried women, divorced women can also refer to almost all categories. Married women with strong families connections mainly fall into the fourth category. From the point of view the author's most attractive phenomena at the time of writing the book were There are women of the second category. Over time, this connection This may change. How to behave when dating Depending on your mood and the mood of the subject you can choose different models of behavior. One of the pretty simple ways - to attract the attention of the entire audience, i.e. be significantly better than others in some way (this trait should be acceptable for the company. For example, a conversation on a narrow specialty although it singles out a person, it also characterizes him as limited- some area). Try to show yourself as versatile developed person. Try to keep the conversation going on any topic, However, for this you need to know a little about everything. Try find out the subject's hobbies and maintain a conversation about those known to him things. If your hobby area is not immediately accessible to you, try be honest about it and at least pretend that you are not know this area, but you are interested to know. It is also possible (and well-you need to tell jokes (you need to start telling jokes if they are in place, otherwise you will look pale children). You can start only with the most harmless and childish ones. If the same object or her (his) friend (friend) supports this beginning tion, you can slowly move on to more vulgar and less censored jokes. It is also advisable to tell funny stories about your life. (It's never too late to laugh at yourself!!!). You can for yourself take some characteristic like “I’m the most...” (modest, shy, brilliant, etc.) and try to jokingly convince others gee about its actual presence, but if your object has already applied this tactic, don’t try to say “And I’m the most...”. Just start Find him to assent. Try not to do things that are unnatural yourself gestures and antics, they can let you down in the future. Actually In any unfamiliar company, try to accept what everyone has in common behavior style. This is a basic and immutable law. Never impose your point of view on things. Not only is it useless, but also threatens crisis situations. Continuation of acquaintance After the first meeting, you decided that it was worth continuing to get acquainted yours. The main thing is don’t get bored!!! Some women are more occur when a man shows his feelings too violently, and this They might be scared off. Also, don’t try to fulfill every whim - you might like this. Onthe first meeting, don’t do anything inappropriate natural for you - later you will have to resort to this - mu every time. For example, if the first time you spent it before home, you will have to do this every meeting. Never at the beginning During the first period of acquaintance, do not try to see a person if he is does not know this (for example, guarding near the house). Most often this transitional moment there is a risk of meeting someone who was before you. People are conservative by nature and the old tit Roy time is better than a new crane. People almost never give up old acquaintances for new ones, especially for the first time period. Some people can combine several acquaintances at the same time. regularly (this will be discussed later). During the start of dating don't try to completely take over a person - he has friends and acquaintances whom he will not give up for your sake. So don't demand the impossible. Also, if your friend (acquaintance) mine) there are some hobbies, it is useless to try to replace hobbies for yourself. After all, new acquaintances are often a passing thing, and hobbies are eternal. Parallel life This means maintaining close relationships with several any individuals of the opposite sex. The most challenging task is not to let it slip. Some tips: - They should not know each other, this may lead to randomopening a mutual friend (instead of going on a date with one you need to escape from two). - It is advisable not to go to the same places with them, except in dangerous places - The danger of meeting mutual acquaintances is that there is a danger of confusing similar situations. - It is advisable that they have different names, so it is more difficult to confuse situations. - It is advisable to not have too many parallel acquaintances - maybe the likelihood of getting confused will disappear and at one fine moment... wander alone. Safety precautions This is not what you will think of at first when you read the title. tion of the chapter. This refers to measures to prevent crisis situations. - Never tell anyone about your past acquaintances. Whoever he is, maybe he will come in handy in the future. - Try not to write down addresses or phone numbers on random books. strokes - it can fall out or be born from somewhere - something and ruin all the raspberries. - At the same time, do not write the same data in general notes books. Then these inscriptions are difficult to remove. - Conclusion - always write in one specific place that is easy to monitor and periodically remove compromising materials. Getting closer to old friends This chapter has nothing to do with dating. Speech is about people who have known each other for a long time in somewhat different ways plan. Getting closer to old acquaintances usually happens quicklyand unexpectedly for each other. To the point where it can begin with the phrase “We have known each other for a long time, but not... us.” In this case It’s difficult to advise anything, it depends on the state of the relationship between them. True, direct refusal (in any form) can break the relationship between them is long lasting. If you were told no This is a rather delicate answer, you could hear worse. So don't be too upset - you're still lucky, so, head about refusals. It is possible to distinguish between different types of failures: - Refusals due to a bad mood, they are easy to distinguish. Ser- There is no need to take such refusals seriously - it’s quite simple don't pay attention. - Refusals are a joke. This needs to be punished. Try to show that you don’t give a damn about everything (although there is a risk of breaking up forever) seven). - Testing feelings - try to prove that you can’t do that some things, with a person who is dear. - A serious, deliberate refusal is the most difficult category of refusal - call In this case, under no circumstances should you immediately insist focus on continuing the relationship and explaining why. The best The best option is to leave everything as it is for a while, and then to meet and try to improve relations (such a the weave can be repeated no more than once - if more - you You'll just get upset, but you won't achieve anything). Sale, exchange, inheritance and...rescue of drowning people There are often times when you need to get rid of a person. century, but you can’t tell him about it for some reason. When- reasons can be different - ranging from reluctance to scandal and death tea because my friend likes it. The easiest way is to ask someone to recapture this person and create all the conditions for this - th. The negative point is the search for a person who can take on such a role and withstand the scandal. Others, more pro- The simplest way (but not as effective) is to be disappointed in you. This is achieved by hinting at bad habits, inclinations and habits. sharing your negative qualities (laziness, selfishness, snobbery, stinginess) to a greater extent than it actually is. This way relatively long. Another way is connected with searching for incriminating evidence and imitating intense jealousy. The breakup of relationships occurs with you of the other party in connection with betrayal (even imaginary) of the other party Noah. For people who travel a lot, the easiest way is to disappear for some time. dig time and not make yourself known. After the appearance of a long recovery be overwhelmed by the impossibility of communication, and then disappear again. Via they will be offended at you for a while and restore the relationship you have already you can’t (which is what needed to be proven). As for the name chapter, then sale, exchange and transfer relate specifically to the issue owls associated with a painless break in relationships with someone.Contraindications for dating Since children are never like their parents, one should not assume rely on the opinions of people of the older generation and try to establish relationships relations with those who are offered as candidates for loved ones acquaintances This is primarily due to different views on people from different generations, and in case of a successful start and unsuccessful the end creates crisis situations in older generations or between generations. For the same reasons, you should not get acquainted with ten friends of their parents. One of the undescribed methods of dating is telephone. Familiar- production in this way is undesirable - you need to spend a lot of money on it effort and you can bury all these efforts at the first meeting. Beware of acquaintances of convenience: if a person is clearly interested was interested in your material, housing or other similar position, then, most likely, this is exactly what he needs in you.
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