Nicron #44 24 июля 1997

Miscellaneous - Why did he change?

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                     Why it is changing?
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(R) MDF HACKER

From the fact that yearns for the woman, openly demanding 
loyalty on unfaithful men their views. They rank as her to

the highest female virtue, but for themselves and allow
another possibility. Usually a conversation between a man and a 
woman on this topic, no matter how peacefully she nor begun, 
ends dispute. Such is the contradiction of the sexes. Their 
position man can even rekindle a secret hatred for women, 
something like hate with a slave to his slave owner. What to 
do! Centuries male half of humanity was trying (and 
successfully) make sexual freedom of their special privilege. 
Over 90 percent of young people repeatedly change sexual 
partners. And well over half of married men, alas, change

wives.

A woman is much less interested in the number of their love
stories and find men's behavior incomprehensible. Even more
weird she is forced to admit men excuse: that it
overcomes the instinct that prompts in the event of a
borders, but that does not mean that decreases his love for
wife or steady girlfriend, and whether in this case at all
talk about cheating ... But where to find a woman, representing 
the your man in the arms of another, would be able to 
comprehend what she had in This piquant situation, no one 
anything and does not take away? 

A man caught between two fires. He realizes that he is doing
not the best when it follows the natural desire for
polygamy, and he was unhappy when forced to deal with this
aspiration. Most men do not hide the fact that in all areas
life, be it music, literature, entertainment, food or sex
relations, diversity has its specific
appeal. On the one hand, he seeks in marriage
security, trust, harmony and peace. On the other hand, while
He enjoys all this, notes the absence of important to him
things: the severity of the exciting new adventures and 
victories, which can be felt only when dealing with unfamiliar 
and even mysterious for him a woman. At the same time he needs 
and calm, and the heat passions. Women who can offer him both, 
it is possible be called a genius. But most women behave quite

differently. They really fall in love only when
male romance has already begun quietly bore ...

More sensible men still bravely struggling with the problem
accustomed to each other. They believe that loyalty - this is 
the case imagination, that is, love the couple should try again 
and again feel the excitement of novelty. That experience of 39 
years of faithful husband: "We his wife from time to time spend 
a weekend away from home: a visit at friends, in a tent near 
the river, then in an abandoned farmhouse. Believe me, very 
nice to see a person that you know by heart, in unfamiliar 
surroundings, in a strange house and strange pillow. 
Immediately you notice that no longer looked at him with such 
interest ... "Women are hard to comprehend the need for such 
tricks. Greyness of everyday life does not oppress them so 
much. Therefore, they themselves rarely come to mind such 
innovations Bailout for men. Little theater, a little 
imagination, a little illusions. And even if the 
husband-conformist would be shocked to see their wife in the 
kitchen in an evening gown, and with a glass of champagne in 
hand, his male ego is simply enchanted, it will enjoy an 
unusual situation and in addition feel welcome, that for him, 
perhaps, is the most important.


Usually women do not really believe stories about male complex
inferiority. Especially when the man starts an affair with
gorgeous blonde. Nevertheless, men's self-doubt -
One explanation for their campaigns, "the left". Women should 
forget about fraud with blond and try to get into the skin of 
normal average man, who is attending the morning service, and

evenings with his wife or girlfriend. It turns out that in 
comparison a woman a man raised in a very disadvantageous 
position. If He wants to be a real man, he should be successful,

must achieve something. But get it from him? Never had he
knows for sure. Perhaps today he would make the service
a mistake that will cause a general laugh. Perhaps colleagues
consider it a complete zero. Perhaps it is not seriously
perceive women ...

The woman in this regard is arranged much better. She lives with
quiet confidence, which is a wonderful gift
the nature of her sex. She did not doubt myself constantly as
doubt it. As an ordinary man thinks? Likely
Nowhere to reach the success he dreamed in his youth.
Anywhere except ... a new secretary in the department. His 
confidence a strengthened if baby turns red as soon as he 
enters the room. He has, however, has a wife. But he knew her 
long ago, however, as she did. He had not worried whether she 
loved and whether it unique. It is quite a normal man ... But

Here's what to do with those who are running after every skirt? 
Who does not miss the opportunity to embark in the adventure of 
love? Who among store is back with lipstick on his shirt, and 
with conference with the smell of perfume? What to do with 
those who have earned a Playboy's glory? In fact, these men are 
much less than imagining women. Superseksualny citizen meets 
both as rare as the nymphomaniac. In general, men are not 
temperamental women. A rumor to the effect that it is their 
particular sexual pushes on a polygamous relationship, and 
therefore justifies them it remains only a rumor that walks 
among themselves as men ... 

So who is this playboy of whose possession of women dream and 
whose Infidelity they mourn? Only - a man with a pair of

neuroses, and a pair of complexes, a bit frivolous and
sufficiently selfish. Most betrayals happen without
any reasonable grounds. And yet women are not worth
count them by comparison. Tolerance in such cases as
usually comes from the helplessness, confusion and fear
finally losing a loved one. Of course, this comfortable 
position, but here's the best right? Psychologists believe that 
the family "disassembly" (Of course, in a friendly tone) would 
be useful. However, many women are more satisfied with the 
version that my husband has changed only physically, and it is 
not so terrible. Rather shaky position. Total Only eight 
percent of men change wives with female partners, they are 
indifferent, that is with a prostitute. 

I would like a man, so his wife looked at him a free life
through your fingers? If you ask him about it, hear the 
unconditional "Yes." But therapists believe that in fact he, 
whose feelings are impermanent, in the subconscious longing for 
a woman who openly demanding loyalty. He needs her as a 
lighthouse that would again brought him home after an 
accidental deviation from the course.