Introduction
Of course, acquaintance is the very first and most important from the point of view
in terms of further development of relations is a step. Impression from the know-
Communities are divided into two categories - “by clothing” - often erroneous
impression of a slightly familiar person. It was the first impression
This forces your opponent to decide whether to continue getting acquainted with
you or not. Moreover, it does not depend on whether you liked it or not,
whether you are interested in yourself or not. No matter how externally attractive
you were not polite if at the first communication you seemed inintimate
interesting, the chances for further development of relations are practically
no. If you liked you at the first meeting, you will be pleased
At the time, saying goodbye is some lack of interest in the future. From
first impression depends on your chances of continuing the acquaintance
and the opportunity to create a second impression. Second category
the impression is “intelligible” - it develops over quite a long time -
real time and it is very difficult to influence its creation. If on
In the first stage, a person may not show what he represents from
himself and play a role that is not inherent to him, then in the future this will inevitably
the second impression will definitely come out - usually about the person
as he is. Of course, the first stage may take a long time, but
Experience knows that it is impossible to play the same role for a long time - or
you switch to yourself or a rolebecome you. Moreover, the second
the swarm is the worst.
Now let's talk about the ways and methods of dating. Let's start talking
thief with more complex situations - you and the object are not familiar at all.
A typical situation - you liked someone on the street and you want
get acquainted. Just come up and start a conversation most likely
nothing will work out. Even if your object does not mind - there are
people around who see you approaching get acquainted. Try it-
there is another way - come up and ask how to get somewhere (you
should know well how to go there). If your subject knows how
to go there - ask to see him, if he doesn’t know - tell me how
go and offer to accompany you. This way you kill two birds with one stone:
first, your target is fooled, not suspecting that they are being tied up with him
acquaintance, and secondly, people who saw the beginning of your conversation
ra, they went ahead and cannot suspect you of anything wrong -
nom. People who follow see that you are talking and
they consider you to have known each other for a long time (that is, they do not pay attention to you).
If you are traveling in public transport, do not try to speak - this is you
cause condemnation of others and embarrassment of the object. In this case
tea, (if you are not in a hurry of course) go to the stop where
your subject exits and when exiting, give her your hand (a calculation is made
to the fact that this is not accepted now and you look first of all
nal person, and secondly a gentleman, forwhich one is it
naturally. For greater persuasiveness, give your hand to all the ladies,
getting off the bus if no one is ahead of you). Several
more successful results are obtained by a more complex method requiring
having two people on each side. Example: you and your friend
you are traveling in public transport and see two girls you are dating
(possibly strangers to each other). Go to one of them (which
whichever one you chose for yourself) and say: “Sorry, my friend wants
meet your friend (just that girl), but he is very
shy and cannot do it himself. Could you please pre-
give it to her..." And you describe your friend from the best side
us. As a result, both girls are puzzled - the first one by the fact that you are not
you pester her with familiarity, the second - with the originality of the method
dating Acquaintance with the first continues on the basis of pimping
quality, on the second - out of confusion.
Of course, all the methods described above are only suitable for special
beat the male. For females, it is recommended to try
to ask a man to provide any kind of favor - to hold the bag,
change a coin or piece of paper, etc. In general, in case of acquaintance
on the street women have a much more difficult time than men and need
but be much more careful and spend as much time as possible
distracting maneuvers (in our time the most relevant conversation
"what, where, how much") to achieveany result.
Easier ways to meet people in closed disco spaces
cars, planes, trains, etc. These methods are not complicated and easy to understand.
We won’t swear at them.
Certain difficulties arise when two objects are opposite
of the opposite sex know each other, he has a friend, she has -
friend and need to introduce them. At first glance it's all simple -
bring them together and let them sort it out. But it is necessary to provide
another option - they didn’t like each other and you end up in
critical situation. Try your friend (girlfriend)
find out the relationship between them and suggest a behavior pattern. Neither
in no case should you hint at accompanying you home, buying
flowers or any other actions in relation to introducing
Xia. All this can lead to crisis situations. We didn’t do it ourselves
suspecting you can force a person to do something he doesn’t want to do
Whether or not he can’t, he has to, so as not to turn out to be uncultured.
If you see that they don't like each other, try
as soon as possible, citing any matters, complete
meeting, otherwise every extra minute only deepens the crisis. For
To avoid such situations, in principle, try as hard as possible
It’s better to find out about people you’re meeting before they meet and get mutual
consent to the risk of dating. You can even tell them a little
about each other in the form of “they told me, but I promiseddon't say anything
rit, so don't let me down." Thus, you significantly
reduce the risk of crisis situations. It is also necessary
provide in advance that in the event of a successful acquaintance, and
the fact of "divorce" for any reason, you can lose yourself
anyone who participated in this party.
A little about the atmosphere of dating “within a circle of friends.”
- Try to start the party not too late. Always necessary
leave the opportunity not to spend the night at a party, but to return
go home. Otherwise, in the event of a crisis situation, do not
More time together is always possible.
- Among those present there should not be many strangers between
ourselves of people. In this case, there will be less shyness and
inconvenience. If there are several unfamiliar couples to meet
- try to distribute in advance as the owner
them in pairs (for example, seated at the table) in accordance with
their wishes.
- Still, the best number of people present is four. B
In this case, those present are busy creating only one
couples and attention is not scattered.
- If the party is intended for getting to know each other, it is essential
the condition for success is an equal number of both men and women.
- You can’t leave a couple you’ve met for a long period of time
time, just as you can’t push them to do anything. If they
agreed on something - they themselves will find a way to inform youabout this.
- It is necessary to take time out several times during the party
for negotiations with your representative in the dating couple
to take into account mutual wishes that cannot be
expressed by them to each other.
- Quiet, unobtrusive music should be played
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